tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post4163509027904039594..comments2023-09-26T05:05:30.381-04:00Comments on soulbrother v.2: From Behind the Mask: My New Year's ResolutionMax Reddickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09360630810931410487noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-91891899275251340652010-01-08T22:17:35.357-05:002010-01-08T22:17:35.357-05:00I ranted about this today. I had to ensure my mask...I ranted about this today. I had to ensure my mask stayed on. While I watched as the man choked on a hard pill to swallow. I shouldnt take joy in watching the man squirm but they deserve every bit of it. While I am doing this I have to play my part and remain calm. Post hit close to home for me.md20737https://www.blogger.com/profile/10885442119224791741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-25018635001529038532010-01-05T13:21:43.131-05:002010-01-05T13:21:43.131-05:00I think we all have a game face for different thin...I think we all have a game face for different things. The mask you wear around your children will not be the same that you wear at the bar with your friends, or colleagues at work. Time and place. <br /><br />I think the real hard part is trying to synergize them so that you never feel too out of touch with yourself. Your friends that referred to you as "the real Max" are referring to the Max they know and love. Very few people, if any, will see all those masks fused into one. And that's the way it should be. Those chosen few are the elite people in our lives. Your masks have gotten you this "far" so you must be doing something right. <br /><br />I think an important question to ask ourselves is, do any of the masks make us uncomfortable? I know when I don the sambo smile, I don't necessarily like that mask, but if I created it and see a need to wear it, that must mean somewhere in me there's a little bit of that. In order to remove the masks we don't like from our repertoires, I guess the only thing that can be done is eliminate the need for it. That is not always easy to do (sometimes impossible?)<br /><br />My apologies if my comment is too verbose...I'm trying to be more short on breath. <br /><br />Great post.Mr. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544226738672256405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-23862665978328455592010-01-02T16:06:17.894-05:002010-01-02T16:06:17.894-05:00"Well we all have a face that we hide away fo..."Well we all have a face that we hide away forever. And we take them out and show ourselves when everyone has gone. Some are satin, some are steel, some are silk, and some are leather. They're the faces of the stranger, but we love to try them on."<br />Billy Joel<br />The Strangerjoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01730346201919898362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-90612992001877078152010-01-02T16:05:19.750-05:002010-01-02T16:05:19.750-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01730346201919898362noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-89691595813355129872010-01-02T11:42:02.948-05:002010-01-02T11:42:02.948-05:00Max, I've been thinking about this in terms of...Max, I've been thinking about this in terms of <i>other</i> people's masks, as you know. But there seems to be a lot of soul-searching across the blogs as 2010 commences. People are at least thinking about being more unified <i>(uniform?)</i> in their public and private personae. (For example, there is an interesting click-through trail starting at <a href="http://postpostracial.wordpress.com/2010/01/01/me-and-my-blog-ego/" rel="nofollow">Post-Post-Racial's first 2010 post</a>.)<br /><br />I'm personally feeling some fatigue with maintaining several "faces." My campus has its online environment (intranet) in which I pretty much stick to business. I also have a couple of academic-ish blogs that pertain to student course work, not much overlap with the "race" blogosphere. I could trade out some blog time for other Web 2.0+, but don't want to. I have old-fashioned e-mail that I maintain with my "real family and friends" especially those who don't read/write blogs. Somewhere in all that we have physical interactions too!ProfGeohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01046750645086625075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-74904612458380277882010-01-02T07:58:33.276-05:002010-01-02T07:58:33.276-05:00Wow, your post really touched me. You've jolte...Wow, your post really touched me. You've jolted me into the uncomfortable position of wondering if I've been wearing a mask too...wondering where and how often am I stifling my true opinions, thought or feelings because I'm not 'at home'. <br /><br />You didn't see it happen and only lucky happenstance that you discovered this in yourself. How can the rest of us be reminded to show our true selves?Lisalisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-18563493106668254592010-01-02T00:46:30.060-05:002010-01-02T00:46:30.060-05:00Brother Max there is a public persona and a privat...Brother Max there is a public persona and a private one. If you ever feel you are being so called fake then you need to increase the opportunities for you to be real more by organizing more times around your real friends. The masks are there to get things done and getting things done is just as important as letting your hair down. Their is a balance that has to be maintained and right now it's just out of whack a bit. The issue is not to be either one too much. Even I have two sides of me if not more but they have a purpose and maybe the true Max needs to realize he needs to be around his real friends more.<br /><br />My goal for this year is to fully realize my talents. I have been able to cruise through life without too much resistance because of the pace I maintain period. But, I have let myself become out of shape mentally. My goal is get back to being efficient in all aspects of my life. The goal is to be Great because I know I am capable of such.FreeManhttp://www.riseandgrind.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3023640958277221986.post-31829032057237313332010-01-01T15:17:21.063-05:002010-01-01T15:17:21.063-05:00I don't do New Year Resolutions. I find that l...I don't do New Year Resolutions. I find that life has a way of envoking necessary changes.<br /><br />I am in pursuit of a new job. I got laid off on 12/31/09. Which is not necessarily a bad thing since I was in the process of looking for a new gig. I swear that I am not going to allow my frickin' liberal senses to override my good sense any more. I took my former position to help a sista out and towards the end it was wearing me low.<br /><br />I think that we all have different masks that we wear. I think it is somewhat necessary for our professional survival. Especially if we are working in an environment that is totally out of our culture.<br /><br />I am so many different women that periodically, I have to sit us all down and merge us back into one. I don't think that men do this process a whole lot. I find it is necessary to keep things mangable and in perspective.<br /><br />It sounds like you enjoyed your holiday in a proper manner. I am a firm believer in rest and relaxation. <br /><br />Happy New Year to you and your family Max!msladyDeborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17593695415626632490noreply@blogger.com